Can anyone relate to my question im about to ask..Please no bad comments?

yes.. ive been in that situation..i was seein this guy for about 6 months and found out he was not only MARRIED but he was seein otha women to and that infuriated me so out of revenge i went and slept with a guy i knew for a while.. and about a month later i found out i was pregnant.. i told the guy i was seeing and he was ok with it but he wasnt ecstatic.. i also told the other guy and he literally started crying lol he knew the situation with the other guy and was totally supportive and hoped it was his baby.. and i was hopin it was his.. after finding all that out about the guy i was seeing the last thing i wanted was his baby.. so the whole pregnancy was kind of stressful not knowing who the father was drove me crazy every single day! these guys are both navy so the guy i was seeing went out to sea when i was about 3 months pregnant and came back a few days before i gave birth..he wanted to b in the room when i had the baby and so did the other guy.. it was jus crazy.. but in the end i had the baby with none of them in the room.. anyway me and the other guy had been plannin on doin a DNA test so he could kno for sure if he was the father or not and when my son was about 2 wks old we did it and it turned out not to be his.. wat a sad day that was.. i felt so bad for him he was seriously heartbroken.. so i automatically knew the guy i was seein was the father.. but he wanted to do another test for himself so we did another one and it proved that it was his.. so i took him to court.. got child support.. and that was that.. he doesnt come around much.. infact the last time he came around my son was about 4 months old.. hes now 1.. yea.. soo im doin it all on my own.. raisin him and my other 2 boys.. its very hard.. thank god for family! and my boys are all healthy.. soo his loss.. but were doin wonderful! there such a blessing..